SPEAKER_1: Finally got Steven Pinker.
SPEAKER_2: I know.
SPEAKER_1: Okay, yes, we're gonna learn all about how the brain is messed up.
SPEAKER_3: We don't need him for that.
SPEAKER_1: Coming up.
SPEAKER_1: The latest from the mind of Steven Pinker on Star Talk.
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SPEAKER_1: So today, we're talking about common knowledge.
SPEAKER_2: Yes.
SPEAKER_1: Common knowledge.
SPEAKER_1: But why is that interesting?
SPEAKER_2: If we think about it, we humans have evolved to be social creatures, and we rely upon each other for many things.
SPEAKER_2: We use language to communicate and coordinate ourselves.
SPEAKER_2: But do we consciously strategize in our social behavior, and are we aware of our own signaling when we interact?
SPEAKER_2: And to the point, what role does common knowledge play in our everyday lives?
SPEAKER_1: I mean, I depend on that all the time, just as an educator.
SPEAKER_2: But a lot of people won't realize that it is something they're using as a tool.
SPEAKER_2: Some people will, as you do.
SPEAKER_2: And does it then play a role in the big ticket items like financial crashes or political revolutions?
SPEAKER_2: Now, okay, I can drone on.
SPEAKER_2: I've said enough.
SPEAKER_2: Let's introduce our guest.
SPEAKER_1: We're going to connect common knowledge to revolutions.
SPEAKER_2: Let's see.
SPEAKER_1: Okay.
SPEAKER_1: Okay, we've got the world's expert on that topic.
SPEAKER_3: Yes.
SPEAKER_1: Sitting right here.
SPEAKER_3: Well, thanks, guys.
SPEAKER_3: I appreciate that.
SPEAKER_3: You know, I've never.
SPEAKER_1: Hammer, pan left, Steven Pinker.
SPEAKER_3: Oh, we meant Steven.
SPEAKER_2: Oh.
SPEAKER_1: Steven Pinker, welcome to Star Talk.
SPEAKER_4: Thank you.
SPEAKER_1: My gosh, we go way back.
SPEAKER_1: We do.
SPEAKER_1: Decades, this, I think, is your first time on Star Talk.
SPEAKER_1: A bad oversight on our part, because there's no reason for that.
SPEAKER_1: You're too active.
SPEAKER_1: Your stuff you work on is too interesting for it to have gone this long without you being on.
SPEAKER_1: So thank you.
SPEAKER_4: Better late.
SPEAKER_1: And I just have to ask up top, are you still winning the best hair for a scientist contest every year?
SPEAKER_4: Oh, I don't know if the Luxuriant Flowing Hair Club for Scientists is still active.
SPEAKER_1: That's what it was called?
SPEAKER_4: Luxuriant Flowing Hair Club for Scientists.
SPEAKER_1: That means it had no black people in it.
SPEAKER_4: I think it did, actually.
SPEAKER_4: There are some impressive dreadlocks out there.
SPEAKER_1: You can dread your way in.
SPEAKER_3: There are some pretty amazing afros out there, too.
SPEAKER_2: It's a pretty cool club.
SPEAKER_4: This is a project of the respected scientific outlet, the Journal of Irreproducible Results.
SPEAKER_1: Oh, good.
SPEAKER_3: Okay.
SPEAKER_1: We should do a whole episode on them at one point.
SPEAKER_4: And the Ig Nobel Prizes.
SPEAKER_4: Ig Nobel Prizes.
SPEAKER_3: Ig Nobel, right?
SPEAKER_4: I've never won one.
SPEAKER_4: That's great.
SPEAKER_1: So you are cognitive psychologist.
SPEAKER_1: I think that's what they call you.
SPEAKER_1: Do I remember you being a linguist, though, long ago?
SPEAKER_4: I'm not a professional linguist.
SPEAKER_4: I'm kind of a psycholinguist, which is the psychology of language, which is a branch of cognitive psychology.
SPEAKER_1: That's how I first met you and knew your work.
SPEAKER_4: But for me, language is just one of the amazing things the human mind does.
SPEAKER_4: So I don't have a PhD in linguistics, but in cognitive psychology.
SPEAKER_1: Got it, got it.
SPEAKER_1: And I have got you here as the John Stone Family Professor of Psychology at Harvard University.
SPEAKER_1: So are you in the famous building, the psychology building there?
SPEAKER_4: William James Hall, the 15-story white building, sticking out like a sore thumb in a Cambridge residential neighborhood.
SPEAKER_1: I got you down here for a dozen books, several of them are some of my favorite books.
SPEAKER_1: You know, The Blank Slate, which had its own bit of controversy, but it's fun to see an intelligent argument presented into that space.
SPEAKER_1: The Better Angels of Our Nature.
SPEAKER_1: Oh my gosh.
SPEAKER_1: It has the two words common knowledge in the title.
SPEAKER_4: In the subtitle.
SPEAKER_1: Subtitle.
SPEAKER_1: So give me the full up title.
SPEAKER_4: So the title of the book is When Everyone Knows That Everyone Knows...
SPEAKER_4: And there's a story behind that.
SPEAKER_4: The subtitle is Common Knowledge and the Mysteries of Money, Power and Everyday Life.
SPEAKER_1: Whoa.
SPEAKER_4: And I can explain all of those things.
SPEAKER_1: You can leave anything out there.
SPEAKER_3: That is...
SPEAKER_3: That's a title.
SPEAKER_3: That's actually three titles.
SPEAKER_2: You see what he does?
SPEAKER_2: I mean, I know you're a psychologist, but you've put in mysteries.
SPEAKER_2: There you go.
SPEAKER_2: And then money and power.
SPEAKER_4: I should have put in sex too.
SPEAKER_3: I'm sure you'll get there.
SPEAKER_1: He's completely manipulating the buyer.
SPEAKER_2: Of course.
SPEAKER_3: Now I want to hear the story behind this title because that's a lot.
SPEAKER_4: Okay.
SPEAKER_4: So common knowledge in the technical sense refers to the situation where I know something, you know it, I know that you know it, you know that I know it, I know that you know that I know it, ad infinitum.
SPEAKER_4: So it's when everyone knows that everyone knows and the dot, dot, dot is essential.
SPEAKER_4: I had to fight with my editor.
SPEAKER_4: He says, oh, it'll screw up the computer listings on Amazon.
SPEAKER_4: That's the infinity.
SPEAKER_4: Because technically, it does mean...
SPEAKER_1: You know, the first I saw that was Ralph Cramden in The Honeymooners.
SPEAKER_1: You know that I know that you know that I know...
SPEAKER_3: Norton.
SPEAKER_1: Norton.
SPEAKER_4: Oh my God, I didn't put that in the book.
SPEAKER_3: Norton.
SPEAKER_3: Actually, that's Eddie Murphy.
SPEAKER_1: No, no, he's imitating...
SPEAKER_3: He's imitating the actual Honeymooners right.
SPEAKER_1: He's imitating...
SPEAKER_3: You know that I know that you know that I know Norton.
SPEAKER_4: I can't believe I left that out.
SPEAKER_1: That was my first encounter with the infinity of this.
SPEAKER_4: I got to look that up.
SPEAKER_4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_1: And if not the original, then it's definitely Eddie Murphy imitating them.
SPEAKER_4: Yeah, right.
SPEAKER_4: Just as good.
SPEAKER_4: That may be better.
SPEAKER_4: Yeah, so to be distinguished from private knowledge, where everyone knows something, but they may not know that everyone else knows it.
SPEAKER_4: And that makes a big difference.
SPEAKER_3: It does.
SPEAKER_4: Wow.
SPEAKER_1: I never thought to think about that.
SPEAKER_4: It's been explored by game theorists, the branch of mathematics, dealing with the best strategy when other people are dealing with, have their own strategies.
SPEAKER_4: It's a big deal in economics, for reasons that we'll get to.
SPEAKER_4: It's been studied by philosophers, but it is a psychological phenomenon.
SPEAKER_4: It's getting in the heads of other people when they're getting into your heads, or still other people's heads.
SPEAKER_4: And they've never been explored from a psychological point of view.
SPEAKER_4: Now, why is this significant?
SPEAKER_4: The reason that it's important is that common knowledge is necessary for coordination.
SPEAKER_4: That is for two people being on the same page, doing things that benefit them both, as long as each one can expect the other one to do it, and expect the other one to do it.
SPEAKER_1: Don't we call that civilization?
SPEAKER_4: Well, civilization does depend on common knowledge.
SPEAKER_4: On institutions like government, like money, that's the reason it's in the subtitle is, the only reason that a piece of paper with Abraham Lincoln on it is valuable is because other people treat it as valuable.
SPEAKER_4: Now, why do they treat it as valuable?
SPEAKER_4: Well, because they know that other people will treat it as valuable.
SPEAKER_4: That's what makes it a currency.
SPEAKER_4: Likewise, for power, there's no way a government can intimidate every last member of its citizenry.
SPEAKER_3: Give it time.
SPEAKER_3: I'm working.
SPEAKER_4: I recognize the impression.
SPEAKER_4: But the government has power.
SPEAKER_4: A president is a president, and a governor is a governor, and the chairman of the board is the chairman of the board, because everyone treats them as if they are.
SPEAKER_4: It's a social reality.
SPEAKER_4: Our corporations, our religions, our gods, our conventions, even language itself.
SPEAKER_4: What makes the word rose refer to a rose?
SPEAKER_4: It smells just as sweet by any other name.
SPEAKER_4: Rose means rose because everyone knows it means rose, and everyone knows that everyone knows.
SPEAKER_4: So all of our conventions, all of our ways of coordinating, all of our harmony depends on common knowledge.
SPEAKER_4: Just to give a concrete example from Thomas Schelling, the political scientist and economist who was one of the originators of the concept, imagine that say a husband and wife get lost in Manhattan.
SPEAKER_4: This is the era before cell phones.
SPEAKER_4: How can they meet up?
SPEAKER_4: He can think, well, she likes to go to a bookstore, so I'll meet her there, but then he thinks, oh, but she knows that I like to go to a camera store, so maybe she'll go to the camera store.
SPEAKER_4: But then she knows that I know that she likes to go to the bookstore, so she'll go to the bookstore after all.
SPEAKER_4: Meanwhile, each of them can kind of ricochet with this useless empathy and still not end up at the same place at the same time.
SPEAKER_4: Nothing short of common knowledge, not only knowing something, but knowing that the other person knows that you know, gets them together.
SPEAKER_4: Now, common knowledge can be generated by language.
SPEAKER_4: That's how I got into it.
SPEAKER_4: That is, in this case, a cell phone call.
SPEAKER_4: Although it can also just be a convention, something that everyone assumes that just coordinates everyone.
SPEAKER_4: Like, what day of the week do you stay home?
SPEAKER_4: Sunday, why Sunday?
SPEAKER_4: Well, because everyone else stays home on Sunday.
SPEAKER_4: So that's a good reason for me to do it if everyone else is doing it.
SPEAKER_4: So a lot of our society depends on common knowledge.
SPEAKER_4: Now, this immediately raises a question.
SPEAKER_4: People say, well, you define common knowledge as, I know that she knows and I know that she knows and I know that she knows, but no one can keep track of them.
SPEAKER_4: That's why you have plots like The Honeymooners or there's an episode in Friends that people always tell me about where Rachel says, Joey, they don't know that we know that we know, they know that we know.
SPEAKER_4: You can't say anything.
SPEAKER_4: And he says, I couldn't even if I wanted to.
SPEAKER_4: The point being that your head starts to spin when you keep, have to keep track of more than two or three layers of I know that she knows.
SPEAKER_4: So how is this possible?
SPEAKER_4: Well, the reason it's possible is that we can get common knowledge at a stroke when there's something that we sense to be public or out there or salient or you can't miss it or it's in your face.
SPEAKER_4: So if I see something at the same time as I see you see it, then that implicitly packs into it as many layers as we would ever need.
SPEAKER_4: And we don't have to think them all through.
SPEAKER_4: But it also means that we're really, really sensitive to something that is public that you can't ignore versus something that may be known privately.
SPEAKER_4: And I have chapters in the book on how that shapes our language, why we don't just blurt out what we mean, but often veil our intentions in euphemism and innuendo to prevent things from being common knowledge.
SPEAKER_4: Phenomena like being in the closet or…
SPEAKER_1: For any…
SPEAKER_1: whatever is the reason you're in the closet for you.
SPEAKER_4: Well, and it used to be the gate you go in the closet.
SPEAKER_4: That's where my clothes are.
SPEAKER_3: That's where I'm in the closet.
SPEAKER_4: Well, my graduate…
SPEAKER_1: In the days you have a walk-in closet, I didn't know that.
SPEAKER_1: Very good.
SPEAKER_3: Dude.
SPEAKER_4: Well, my graduate advisor, actually, he insisted he was not gay.
SPEAKER_4: He was a homosexual.
SPEAKER_4: To be…
SPEAKER_1: In the day.
SPEAKER_4: In the day.
SPEAKER_4: That's right.
SPEAKER_4: And he said that to be gay, you have to be born in the 50s or later.
SPEAKER_4: He was born in the 20s.
SPEAKER_4: But no one ever acknowledged that he was gay, and he would never acknowledge it.
SPEAKER_4: Someone who described him as a bachelor.
SPEAKER_4: Now, each of us knew…
SPEAKER_3: Confirmed the bachelor.
SPEAKER_1: Confirmed bachelor.
SPEAKER_4: Until he was in his late 50s, when he finally, as we say, came out.
SPEAKER_4: Now, you notice the metaphors.
SPEAKER_4: In the closet means that it's not public, you can't see it.
SPEAKER_4: Coming out means not only can you see him, but you can see everyone else seeing him.
SPEAKER_4: But that's a good metaphor for common knowledge.
SPEAKER_4: And common knowledge in general governs our relationships as well as our institutions.
SPEAKER_4: So it's not just money and power.
SPEAKER_4: The everyday life in the subtitle comes from the fact that our relationships of deference, of intimacy, of friendship, romantic relationships, transactional relationships, they all exist because both parties know they exist.
SPEAKER_4: What does it mean to be friends?
SPEAKER_4: It's not like you sign a contract.
SPEAKER_1: It was an implicit contract in a way.
SPEAKER_4: It is implicit and it depends on common knowledge.
SPEAKER_4: Namely, what does it mean for us to be friends?
SPEAKER_4: It means that I know that you know that we're friends and I know that you know that I know that we're friends.
SPEAKER_4: That's all there is to it.
SPEAKER_4: And so sometimes when we don't want to threaten a relationship, we might avoid common knowledge by hinting, slipping in our intentions as eating around the bush, euphemism, you kind of catch my drift, you connect the dots.
SPEAKER_4: Whereas if you blurt it out, then that changed the nature of the relationship.
SPEAKER_3: So, what about those where I'll see the common knowledge, but there is what I'll call an acceptable duplicity?
SPEAKER_4: Yeah.
SPEAKER_1: A two-way duplicity.
SPEAKER_3: A two-way duplicity.
SPEAKER_3: Like, we're both aware of it.
SPEAKER_4: Yeah.
SPEAKER_3: But at the same time, I don't want to upset the apple cart because what we got here is good.
SPEAKER_4: That's exactly what I talk about.
SPEAKER_4: I have a chapter called Weasel Words.
SPEAKER_1: Weasel Words.
SPEAKER_4: Yes.
SPEAKER_3: That sounds like a fun chapter.
SPEAKER_4: But acceptable duplicity, when there's all kinds of benign hypocrisy.
SPEAKER_4: The politician who resigns to spend more time with his family, the escort services.
SPEAKER_4: Would you like to come up for Netflix and chill?
SPEAKER_4: Let's say you were trying to bribe a maitre d to jump the queue and be seated immediately.
SPEAKER_4: You might, holding out a $50 bill in peripheral vision, say, is there anything you can do to shorten my wait?
SPEAKER_4: I was wondering if you might have a cancellation.
SPEAKER_4: Right.
SPEAKER_1: A $50 cancellation.
SPEAKER_4: And not, if I give you $50, will you seat me right away?
SPEAKER_3: Exactly.
SPEAKER_3: Because that would be crass.
SPEAKER_4: And so what does it mean for it to be crass?
SPEAKER_4: What it means is you're disrespecting the relationship you have, where he is the authority and he sees you where and when he pleases.
SPEAKER_4: You're treating him like a transactional relationship, which is a very different kind of human relationship.
SPEAKER_4: Likewise, what's the difference between you want to come up for Netflix and chill and you want to come up for sex?
SPEAKER_4: Well, with Netflix and chill, there isn't really plausible deniability.
SPEAKER_4: I mean, she's a grown up.
SPEAKER_4: She knows what it means, but she could have some doubt that you know that she knows that you know what it means.
SPEAKER_4: She could think, well, maybe he thinks I'm naive and I'm just turning down an invitation to a movie.
SPEAKER_4: He could think, well, maybe she thinks I'm dense and that I might think she's naive or I might think that she doesn't realize that I'm not naive.
SPEAKER_4: So they can maintain, go back to their platonic relationship.
SPEAKER_4: They haven't jumped to a different one.
SPEAKER_1: Possible deniability.
SPEAKER_4: Well, it's a possible deniability of common knowledge.
SPEAKER_4: Because when you think about it, it's really not that plausible.
SPEAKER_3: Everybody knows, but like you said.
SPEAKER_4: The thing is, everyone may not know that everyone knows that everyone knows.
SPEAKER_3: Exactly, and what that does is it allows you to save face.
SPEAKER_4: So saving face, by the way, another great, going back to the idea, if common knowledge is so important, as I say it is, and it requires, I know that she knows which makes your head hurt, how could it work so well?
SPEAKER_4: And one of the reasons is that we talk about it not using the language of philosophy or game theory, but metaphors of something being visible out in the open.
SPEAKER_4: That's why we use expressions like in the closet or saving face.
SPEAKER_4: Face is a part of you that other people see and that you use to see other people.
SPEAKER_4: So saving face or losing face is a great metaphor for common knowledge.
SPEAKER_1: Let's really save the facade of your face, in a way, right?
SPEAKER_1: Saving the face that you had established prior.
SPEAKER_4: Face and facade are related.
SPEAKER_1: I guess so.
SPEAKER_1: Do you know in the movie Back to the Future, there's a deleted scene which.
SPEAKER_3: How could I know that?
SPEAKER_4: Oh, okay, sorry.
SPEAKER_1: Where the doc is setting up his connection to the clock in anticipation of the lightning strike.
SPEAKER_3: Okay.
SPEAKER_1: And the cop comes by and say, oh doc, what you doing?
SPEAKER_1: I'm just doing some weather.
SPEAKER_1: Give me his voice, some weather experiments.
SPEAKER_3: Oh, I'm doing some weather experiments.
SPEAKER_1: Thank you.
SPEAKER_1: And then, and so then, and he said, you got a permit for that?
SPEAKER_1: And he says, of course I do.
SPEAKER_1: Okay.
SPEAKER_1: So then he comes down and goes up to him.
SPEAKER_1: This is the deleted scene.
SPEAKER_1: He walks up to him, opens his wallet and there's just cash there.
SPEAKER_4: Oh my goodness.
SPEAKER_1: Doesn't have his permit.
SPEAKER_3: I didn't, oh, I was about to say, I didn't see that.
SPEAKER_3: But I just, yeah.
SPEAKER_1: So he bribed him, but that's kind of out of character with how he, he's just a lovable, doddering old scientist.
SPEAKER_3: That would have damaged his character.
SPEAKER_1: It would have damaged the character.
SPEAKER_3: Yeah, that would have damaged the character.
SPEAKER_4: But that would have been a perfect example.
SPEAKER_1: It's transactional.
SPEAKER_4: Well, the thing is that it's in fact transactional, but it's very dangerous to suggest to a cop that you have a transaction.
SPEAKER_4: In fact, it's illegal.
SPEAKER_1: So he just makes it visible.
SPEAKER_4: Exactly.
SPEAKER_4: That's all it is.
SPEAKER_4: So there is.
SPEAKER_1: It's somewhere in here.
SPEAKER_4: And so it's not plausibly deniable, but it's deniable that the other person knows that you know or knows that you know that he knows that you know.
SPEAKER_4: And that's what flips it from deference and respect and authority to transactional.
SPEAKER_4: And you want to avoid that flip, but you still want to do business.
SPEAKER_4: That's why there are reasonableness.
SPEAKER_3: Because I'm from Philly, and it was, of course, Philadelphia politicians, but I forget the name of the scandal, but it was very famous because they caught it on tape and only one politician didn't go for it.
SPEAKER_3: But these people, these feds, dressed up as Saudi businessmen.
SPEAKER_3: And they had-
SPEAKER_4: Abscam.
SPEAKER_3: Abscam, that's exactly right.
SPEAKER_3: And they had piles of money sitting out-
SPEAKER_2: That's been done a number of times around the world.
SPEAKER_3: As they were discussing what they wanted.
SPEAKER_3: And then only one of the politicians was just like, yeah, I'm not worried about that.
SPEAKER_3: Let's talk about-
SPEAKER_3: And everybody else went down.
SPEAKER_1: It was the financial seduction is what that was.
SPEAKER_3: But they never said, this money is yours.
SPEAKER_3: They just put a pile of money in front of them.
SPEAKER_3: And they were like, so let's talk about the new rail line.
SPEAKER_4: Veiled bribes.
SPEAKER_4: Veiled threats.
SPEAKER_4: I quote an episode from The Sopranos in which a member of the family approaches a high school acquaintance and says, hey, great to see you, Danny.
SPEAKER_4: I hear you're on the jury for the Soprano trial.
SPEAKER_4: It's an important civic responsibility that we should all take part in.
SPEAKER_4: You've got a wife and kids.
SPEAKER_4: We know you'll do the right thing.
SPEAKER_4: That's a veiled bribe.
SPEAKER_4: Now, of course, bribe extortion is illegal.
SPEAKER_4: In everyday life, there are occasions where there are implicit veiled threats that you don't spell out in so many words because that establishes a relationship of dominance.
SPEAKER_4: And you may want to avoid that relationship while still getting the messes through.
SPEAKER_1: That could completely change the dynamic.
SPEAKER_4: Change the dynamic.
SPEAKER_4: So that's what that chapter is about.
SPEAKER_3: That doesn't happen in the black community.
SPEAKER_3: It's just like, I will kick your ass.
SPEAKER_1: It's resolved in the moment.
SPEAKER_3: It's resolved in the moment.
SPEAKER_1: What?
SPEAKER_3: I will kick your ass.
SPEAKER_2: No.
SPEAKER_4: Well, there are, I mean, so that's a case where the relationship of dominance is already established.
SPEAKER_1: That's the exact scene in Coming to America.
SPEAKER_3: Is it?
SPEAKER_1: Where they're at the McDowell's home and the king says, how much for your daughter?
SPEAKER_1: Oh, okay.
SPEAKER_1: And she says, this is America, Jack.
SPEAKER_1: And you better stop me before I put my foot up your ass.
SPEAKER_3: Right.
SPEAKER_3: Was that John Amos?
SPEAKER_3: Yeah, John Amos.
SPEAKER_3: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_3: I forget the exact words.
SPEAKER_3: In the moment.
SPEAKER_1: Right.
SPEAKER_1: There was a, because it's a king and just like an rich American.
SPEAKER_4: Another great example.
SPEAKER_4: So why do cultures differ from each other?
SPEAKER_4: Well, there, if you think of the different kinds of relationships, so the basic kinds of relationships are communal sharing, warmth, intimacy.
SPEAKER_4: That's one model.
SPEAKER_1: Not America.
SPEAKER_4: Well, another model is.
SPEAKER_1: What's mine is mine.
SPEAKER_1: It was yours is mine.
SPEAKER_4: Well, there's actually a twist on that.
SPEAKER_4: So another relationship is hierarchy, you know, alpha male, pecking order, top dog.
SPEAKER_4: And the third one is transactional.
SPEAKER_4: Now, where cultures differ is not across the board, but in what kind of relationships, parent, child, student, teacher, employee, boss, friend, friend.
SPEAKER_4: What resource?
SPEAKER_4: Money, favors, sex.
SPEAKER_4: And in what context?
SPEAKER_4: Home, school, public.
SPEAKER_4: If you mix and match those, that gives you kind of all the variation from anthro 101.
SPEAKER_4: And so there's certain resource.
SPEAKER_4: So for example, there are cultures that really openly trade brides or daughters to become brides.
SPEAKER_4: Ours doesn't commoditize that explicitly, but we do say buy and sell land, which some cultures don't do, where the land might be communal.
SPEAKER_4: And so if you think of all the resources, all the context, all the...
SPEAKER_1: It's quite the matrix of how that can come together.
SPEAKER_4: That's kind of the matrix of anthro 101.
SPEAKER_2: So if we look at common knowledge as a variant of culture, and different cultures prize certain common knowledge differently, how often do we get the misinterpretation of our common knowledge?
SPEAKER_4: We often get misinterpretations when they're cross-cultural.
SPEAKER_2: Exactly, yeah.
SPEAKER_4: And that's part of what culture shock is.
SPEAKER_4: You don't know what is the common knowledge in the new community that you have to deal with.
SPEAKER_4: And that can result in war.
SPEAKER_4: It could result in war.
SPEAKER_4: I mean, it can result in misunderstanding, sometimes comical ones, and it's used in comedy, as in Coming to America, as in Borat, where you have the bumpkin from one culture using the assumptions that were native to that guy's culture, but completely inappropriate, sometimes leading to embarrassment, sometimes to shock and outrage.
SPEAKER_2: And then if we look at the communication through body language or unintentional signalling?
SPEAKER_4: Yeah.
SPEAKER_4: I have a chapter called Laughing, Crying, Blushing, Staring, Glaring, about non-verbal common language generators.
SPEAKER_2: Couldn't get a long title then.
SPEAKER_4: Laughing, crying, blushing, blushing, staring, glaring, glaring, glaring, okay.
SPEAKER_4: Now, we have dozens, maybe hundreds of facial expressions, smiling and frowning and grimacing and so on.
SPEAKER_4: But on top of that, we have some really conspicuous forms of non-verbal communication that have puzzled people for millennia, such as laughing.
SPEAKER_4: Why do we interrupt our speech with that staccato noise?
SPEAKER_1: Yes, Steven, why?
SPEAKER_4: I thought you'd never ask.
SPEAKER_3: Because Chuck needs to pay his mortgage, that's why.
SPEAKER_3: I mean, come on.
SPEAKER_1: I forgot, there's a whole profession that depends on this.
SPEAKER_4: Yes.
SPEAKER_4: So, what I argue is that for these conspicuous displays, blushing is another one.
SPEAKER_4: Why should blood go to your cheeks?
SPEAKER_4: Crying, why should a fluid drip to your eyes?
SPEAKER_4: Why do you shed tears?
SPEAKER_4: I suggest that they are common knowledge generators.
SPEAKER_4: So, when you're laughing, you know you're laughing because your breathing is interrupted.
SPEAKER_4: Other people know you're laughing because they can hear it.
SPEAKER_4: Other people know that you know, you know that other people know, etc.
SPEAKER_4: Blushing, you feel the heat of the inside in your cheeks, knowing that other people can see the change in color from the outside, and they know that you know that you're feeling it, all the more so when they say, you're blushing.
SPEAKER_3: I've never had that problem.
SPEAKER_1: Yes, it's not a black people.
SPEAKER_3: That's why Steven pointed at me.
SPEAKER_1: It's a lesser thing.
SPEAKER_4: So Darwin worried about this, because Darwin was a big proponent of universal emotions.
SPEAKER_4: In fact, for him...
SPEAKER_1: He had a whole book on it.
SPEAKER_4: A whole book on the expression of the emotions in animals and man.
SPEAKER_1: Yes, yes.
SPEAKER_4: And in fact, he used it, in fact, as an argument against the scientific racism of his day, which said the different races were independently...
SPEAKER_1: Evolved.
SPEAKER_4: Evolved or created, one or the other, either one.
SPEAKER_4: And he said that the similarity in facial expressions and many other aspects of emotion showed that we all descended pretty recently from a common ancestor.
SPEAKER_4: Wow.
SPEAKER_4: And his data, I mean, he was kind of an invalid, but he corresponded with colonial officers and missionaries and traders all over the world.
SPEAKER_4: And he had them, gave them questionnaires to ask of their interactions with local people, which they then mailed back to him.
SPEAKER_1: So it's just to be in context, this is before photography could capture it, right?
SPEAKER_1: I'm just at the dawn of photography, what that is.
SPEAKER_4: In fact, his book, this book that we're talking about, was the first use of scientific photography.
SPEAKER_4: Although not for cross-cultural studies, because the missionaries didn't have cameras out there in the field.
SPEAKER_4: But he actually used it to analyze the musculature in facial expressions, including studies where they got a person in an asylum and they shocked the different muscles to see what they did to a facial expression.
SPEAKER_4: That was a bit of a digression.
SPEAKER_4: Going back to the question though of do...
SPEAKER_1: Is silins all they ever use is electricity on you?
SPEAKER_1: That's what it seems like.
SPEAKER_4: I guess that's right.
SPEAKER_4: But he asked the question, do dark skinned people blush?
SPEAKER_4: And is it detectable?
SPEAKER_4: At least the answer from him and the answer that I got from Nina Jablonski, who's an expert on skin color is yes.
SPEAKER_4: It may not be.
SPEAKER_1: I'm not denying it.
SPEAKER_1: I'm just saying it's not an active reference in our comments of people's emotions.
SPEAKER_4: But I even cite a Ghanaian physician.
SPEAKER_1: Donna?
SPEAKER_1: Ghanaian?
SPEAKER_4: Yes.
SPEAKER_4: Very dark skinned.
SPEAKER_4: He said, well, my mother can tell when I'm blushing.
SPEAKER_4: It's a change in color.
SPEAKER_4: Anyway, the point is that it's a common knowledge generator in that you know that you're experiencing it.
SPEAKER_4: You know that other people can see you experiencing it.
SPEAKER_4: They know that you know you're experiencing it.
SPEAKER_4: Tears.
SPEAKER_4: You're looking at the world through a scrim of fluid.
SPEAKER_4: It blurs your vision.
SPEAKER_4: At the same time that other people can see the glistening or the trickle.
SPEAKER_4: So again, you know that you're crying.
SPEAKER_4: Other people know that you know that they know.
SPEAKER_4: And eye contact is the ultimate common knowledge generator because you're looking at the part of the person that's looking at the part of you, that's looking at the part of them, that's looking at the part of you, ad infinitum.
SPEAKER_4: Although you don't have to think about it ad infinitum.
SPEAKER_1: But what about this eyebrow thing?
SPEAKER_1: Why should that mean anything other than what it means?
SPEAKER_4: Well, Darwin dealt with that in the book where he noted that some facial expressions are vestiges or remnants of facial postures that animals do when they are about to attack or they're defending themselves.
SPEAKER_4: So in the case of the fear expression, he noted that if you're likely to be a prey animal or someone who's going to be picked on by the Alpha, you've got to open your eyes wide to see where threats might be coming from.
SPEAKER_4: If on the other hand, you're the predator or you're the Alpha, you want to focus.
SPEAKER_4: Exactly.
SPEAKER_4: And the remnants of that include, and so the furrowing your brows, which I think narrows the field of vision, may even narrow, if the folds of skin actually intrude on the pupils, might increase depth of field.
SPEAKER_1: Yes, it does.
SPEAKER_1: Yes, optically.
SPEAKER_4: Optically.
SPEAKER_1: That's why people, if they don't have their glasses on, they squint.
SPEAKER_1: They squint.
SPEAKER_4: Exactly.
SPEAKER_1: They don't even know that they're increasing their depth of field by doing so.
SPEAKER_1: I mean, they're not actively thinking, they just know they see better.
SPEAKER_4: Going back to these non-verbal common knowledge generators, we use them to make something public that formerly was private.
SPEAKER_4: Within us.
SPEAKER_4: That's the common denominator.
SPEAKER_4: Yes.
SPEAKER_4: So, in the case of eye contact, now that developed way before we were humans because among primates, eye contact is a threat signal.
SPEAKER_4: The dominant stares at the subordinate who looks away, which is by the way also true in humans.
SPEAKER_4: The boss looks at them.
SPEAKER_2: When you make eye contact, people walk with their head down.
SPEAKER_3: That was the first thing I was told when I came to New York City as a kid.
SPEAKER_3: We were on the subway and they said, whatever you do, do not make eye contact.
SPEAKER_2: Yeah.
SPEAKER_4: I said, you looking at me?
SPEAKER_3: Who are you looking at?
SPEAKER_2: A young person walked past me yesterday evening and I'm thinking, if you don't look up, you are going to walk into me.
SPEAKER_2: And it was intentional not to make any eye contact.
SPEAKER_4: Well, the anthropologist Irv DeVore used to tell his class, if two human beings look into each other's eyes anywhere on earth for more than six seconds, then either they're going to have sex or one of them is going to kill the other one.
SPEAKER_1: That is so true.
SPEAKER_2: There you go.
SPEAKER_1: Oh my gosh.
SPEAKER_3: What a great saying.
SPEAKER_1: That is true.
SPEAKER_3: It's true.
SPEAKER_3: So why is this so uncomfortable?
SPEAKER_3: I mean, even like, I don't mind making eye contact, especially if the person is decent looking.
SPEAKER_3: I've got to tell you, when somebody is unattractive, I'm, it's tough.
SPEAKER_3: I'm just saying.
SPEAKER_3: It is rough to look at somebody who is not attractive and like maintained eye contact, but prolonged eye contact, and I don't know if it's just me, but I'm just going to put it out there.
SPEAKER_3: I'm going to be honest.
SPEAKER_3: It gets a little like creepy and uncomfortable.
SPEAKER_4: Oh, it absolutely does.
SPEAKER_4: Okay.
SPEAKER_4: So, and I actually write about this.
SPEAKER_4: So what we call eye contact in ordinary conversation is it's a bit of a misnomer.
SPEAKER_4: Your eyes kind of dance all over the face.
SPEAKER_4: All the time.
SPEAKER_4: You spend a lot of time lip reading.
SPEAKER_4: But it's the eyeball to eyeball stare that's really a, which is something different.
SPEAKER_4: Now we're humans.
SPEAKER_4: We're not monkeys.
SPEAKER_4: We're not gorillas.
SPEAKER_4: And so eye contact doesn't have one meaning.
SPEAKER_4: I mean, it can be seduction.
SPEAKER_4: It can be threat.
SPEAKER_4: But more generally, it can be something that formerly was private knowledge is as of this moment, common knowledge, which is why we say things like, can you look me in the eye and say that?
SPEAKER_4: That's great.
SPEAKER_1: Tell me the truth.
SPEAKER_2: Basically, we're trying to interpret so many different things, and that's why you get uncomfortable.
SPEAKER_4: And when you're embarrassed, you look down, you look away, you avoid making eye contact.
SPEAKER_4: So what laughter does is it makes what used to be private knowledge, common knowledge, where it's some indignity or infirmity or weakness of some butt of the joke.
SPEAKER_4: Now that can be someone that you're trying to bring down.
SPEAKER_4: It could be someone you're trying to keep down in aggressive humor.
SPEAKER_4: Although there's also, of course, convivial humor, what we've all been doing, where the signaling is to reinforce the egalitarianism as the basis of warmth and friendship.
SPEAKER_4: Because there's always a danger of dominance creeping in.
SPEAKER_4: With any two people, one of them is going to be better looking, smarter, richer, more powerful.
SPEAKER_4: But that's not what you want to do with your friends.
SPEAKER_4: When you're friends, it's like we are all on the same level.
SPEAKER_4: And so by calling attention to some weakness in yourself that you could lord over people, but you don't want to lord over people, or vice versa, gentle teasing and joshing that the other person accepts, then you're reestablishing the common knowledge that the basis of our relationship is-
SPEAKER_2: Self-depreciation.
SPEAKER_4: Yes, exactly.
SPEAKER_1: So, what does one do for, is it, whatever the number is, is it one out of 10 or one out of six of us who's on the spectrum where social cues do not play?
SPEAKER_4: Exactly.
SPEAKER_1: Might that be adaptive, where now you don't know anything about me because my facial expressions are not responding, and therefore I'm not revealing my inner secrets to you?
SPEAKER_4: Well, there is the-
SPEAKER_1: That could have survival value.
SPEAKER_4: I suspect that's more likely used strategically as in the poker face.
SPEAKER_4: That is the poker face where you deliberately hide the tells.
SPEAKER_4: In a case where you're not in a situation of cooperation, but zero-sum competition, then any kind of tell could be used to your disadvantage.
SPEAKER_3: So I don't play poker because I'm the worst.
SPEAKER_3: It's just, damn!
SPEAKER_4: Oh, just kidding.
SPEAKER_2: All right, to go back briefly to the animal thing, what about the elephant in the room?
SPEAKER_2: You know, the emperor's new clothes scenario.
SPEAKER_4: So I actually opened the book with the emperor's new clothes because that's a story about common knowledge.
SPEAKER_4: When the little boy said the emperor was naked, he wasn't telling anyone anything they didn't already know, but he was changing their knowledge because when he blurted it out in public, now everyone knew that everyone else knew that everyone else knew.
SPEAKER_4: So he converted private knowledge to common knowledge.
SPEAKER_4: So first of all, that made a difference.
SPEAKER_4: That was the climax of the story.
SPEAKER_4: What did it do?
SPEAKER_4: Is it changed their relationship with the emperor from deference to ridicule and scorn?
SPEAKER_4: So a relationship of deference.
SPEAKER_4: To the emperor.
SPEAKER_1: To the tailor.
SPEAKER_4: Well, but to the emperor too, at least in the.
SPEAKER_1: No, the tailor, but the tailor fooled him.
SPEAKER_1: The tailor's fault, not the emperor's fault.
SPEAKER_3: Which is why I'm gonna have him killed right away as if he was clinging to a boat.
SPEAKER_1: Did I have a Disney-fied version of that story?
SPEAKER_1: I mean, the tailor is the one who should be.
SPEAKER_4: Yes, but at that moment in public, it was the emperor who suffered the.
SPEAKER_3: The emperor suffers all of the embarrassment.
SPEAKER_4: Especially in the Danny Kay version of the story, where it was met with ridicule and scorn in the lyrics to the song.
SPEAKER_4: And deference is a matter of common knowledge.
SPEAKER_4: You defer to someone because you know they'll stand their ground.
SPEAKER_4: Why do they stand their ground?
SPEAKER_4: Because they know that you'll defer to them.
SPEAKER_4: Why do you, and how do they know that?
SPEAKER_4: Well, because you know that they know that they'll stand their ground ad infinitum.
SPEAKER_3: So, and what about the mutuality of respect?
SPEAKER_3: I mean, that's the flip side of that.
SPEAKER_3: Sometimes there's a matter of deference because you truly respect the person.
SPEAKER_3: They understand that you truly respect them, and they respect that, you know?
SPEAKER_4: Yeah, there are different flavors of the hierarchical relationship.
SPEAKER_4: It could be dominance, which basically means, you know, I could hurt you if I wanted to.
SPEAKER_4: There can be status, I could help you if I wanted to.
SPEAKER_4: There can be expertise, you all have a common interest in the decisions being made by someone who knows what they're talking about.
SPEAKER_4: Or even sometimes if everyone's going in the expression hurting cats, even if no one has a particular reason to be the decider, it's best for everyone if there is a decider, and that can give you a hierarchical relationship.
SPEAKER_4: But we do use metaphors like saving face out there, and the elephant in the room is obviously something that everyone can see and ignore.
SPEAKER_3: Yeah, it makes sense.
SPEAKER_1: The elephant in the room is the emperor's new clothes, because no one is talking about it, even though everyone knows that it's there.
SPEAKER_3: Which is why the saying always is, let's acknowledge the elephant in the room.
SPEAKER_3: In other words, like we all see it, now let's talk about it.
SPEAKER_2: Listening to you so far, I get the feeling that there's a kind of a logic to common knowledge, and maybe even like a code, and that might then culturally vary.
SPEAKER_4: Yes.
SPEAKER_4: So I think the phenomenon of common knowledge and things that generate it, like blunt speech, like eye contact, is universal.
SPEAKER_4: But then, what are the relationships that are negotiated with common knowledge, or ratified by common knowledge?
SPEAKER_4: That is, what can friends share?
SPEAKER_4: What can a boss demand of an employee?
SPEAKER_4: How is sex treated?
SPEAKER_4: Can it be transactional, or is it only intimate?
SPEAKER_4: All of these mixing and matching of resources, relationship models and contexts, that's what makes cultures differ from one another.
SPEAKER_4: But in each case, there is some kind of common knowledge that holds the relationship in place that sets out what you're allowed to exchange, what you're allowed to hoard, what you're allowed to demand.
SPEAKER_4: And that's what it means to be a competent member of a culture, to master that.
SPEAKER_4: Each one of them being a matter of common knowledge.
SPEAKER_1: So Steven, I try to know what is common knowledge so that I can access it as an educator.
SPEAKER_1: I can tap it into it, I can add to it, because I don't have to train people to know things that represent common knowledge.
SPEAKER_1: Comedians, your joke does not work unless everybody knows what you're talking about.
SPEAKER_3: The more universal, the better.
SPEAKER_3: And by universal, I mean...
SPEAKER_1: You mean earth-wide?
SPEAKER_1: I'm an astrophysicist here.
SPEAKER_1: Correct yourself.
SPEAKER_3: Okay.
SPEAKER_3: The more commonly accepted, the better.
SPEAKER_1: The more earth-wide.
SPEAKER_3: Right.
SPEAKER_3: The more earth-wide, the better.
SPEAKER_3: But really, it's about experiential knowledge.
SPEAKER_3: Even if you've never been through what I am talking about, if I can put you there, then you will laugh with me.
SPEAKER_3: There are many people, many comedians, that talk about marriage, and people who are single laugh because they have observed somebody else in a relationship that they understand what this comedian is talking about.
SPEAKER_1: That brought in your access points to the person.
SPEAKER_3: For instance, when Steven was talking about the lost couple and the woman was going to a bookstore and the man was going to a camera shop, the first thing that popped into my head was, well, listen, if you know what's good for you, you better go to that damn bookstore because every husband knows that if I don't show up at the bookstore, I'm in trouble.
SPEAKER_3: And that's the first thing that popped into my head.
SPEAKER_4: This is an important point because what human often does is it establishes common knowledge.
SPEAKER_4: That is, if you get the joke, then what has just been made public is something that you privately knew along.
SPEAKER_4: And so you get that feeling of solidarity with the other person.
SPEAKER_4: If you're laughing at the same thing, then what was unstated that makes the joke funny is something that you have in common.
SPEAKER_4: That's why humor is such an important bonding agent for in dating, one of the main criteria in accepting a major...
SPEAKER_1: Sense of humor.
SPEAKER_4: Sense of humor.
SPEAKER_4: And since humor has to be...
SPEAKER_1: I never thought deeply about that fact.
SPEAKER_1: I just thought it would be more entertaining, but it's more bonding.
SPEAKER_4: What it means is that you share a lot of common ground, common knowledge.
SPEAKER_4: That is, you can't get the joke unless there is some hidden, unstated premise that makes it work.
SPEAKER_4: And that can bond people.
SPEAKER_4: It can also be a devastating put-down and an intolerable insult.
SPEAKER_4: I give the famous example of the roast at the national press correspondence dinner during the Obama presidency, where Donald Trump was in the audience and Obama made a number of jokes at Trump's expense.
SPEAKER_4: Ordinarily, people are expected to be a good sport and to accept the barbs, showing that they have commonality, common ground with everyone in the room.
SPEAKER_4: But Trump took it personally.
SPEAKER_4: He was visibly fuming and scowling at a joke like, well, it would be good if Donald Trump was president because he could accomplish things like closing Guantanamo because he has a history of running waterfront real estate into the ground.
SPEAKER_4: That's a great joke.
SPEAKER_4: Trump didn't think so.
SPEAKER_3: No, it's a terrible joke.
SPEAKER_4: So the point is that everyone who laughed, first of all, knew that Trump, despite his boasts of being a business genius, had a string of failures, which made it all the more painful for Trump for that to be brought out into the open.
SPEAKER_4: According to some stories, that's what led him to run to the first point.
SPEAKER_4: Yeah, for revenge.
SPEAKER_3: And they're all now being investigated by my Justice Department.
SPEAKER_3: It was a hoax, Obama and his jokes.
SPEAKER_2: So, what happens when the humorist just twists the common knowledge?
SPEAKER_2: And I think you've got, you touched this in the book, toilet paper shortage.
SPEAKER_4: Oh, yes.
SPEAKER_2: And the origin of that story.
SPEAKER_4: So, there's some viral fads and phenomena, which can be really significant.
SPEAKER_2: So, common knowledge is a kind of virulent property.
SPEAKER_4: It can be, yes.
SPEAKER_4: So, in the case of, say, a bank run, where a rumor starts that the bank might be in trouble and, of course, banks don't have enough cash on hand to redeem all their deposits.
SPEAKER_4: But if you worry that other people worry, that still other people worry, that other people worry, that the bank might be insolvent, then everyone rushes to the bank to withdraw their savings, which can actually cause the bank to fail, even if it was sound.
SPEAKER_4: And that can bring down an entire economy.
SPEAKER_4: That was, in part, the cause of the Great Depression.
SPEAKER_4: And so, when Roosevelt said, the only thing we have to fear is fear itself, this was a theorem of common knowledge.
SPEAKER_4: It wasn't just a feel-good bromide, but he was accurately diagnosing the situation, which is why financial leaders.
SPEAKER_1: That was a, that's Roosevelt speaking to Flat Earthers.
SPEAKER_1: The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
SPEAKER_3: Oh my God.
SPEAKER_2: How long have you been waiting for that?
SPEAKER_2: Oh my God.
SPEAKER_3: No.
SPEAKER_3: That's a good one.
SPEAKER_1: Is fear itself.
SPEAKER_3: It's so bad, I'm laughing at it.
SPEAKER_2: It's good.
SPEAKER_2: Oh dear, it's totally good.
SPEAKER_2: You got your dad joke out, haven't you?
SPEAKER_1: That was a dad joke.
SPEAKER_1: And of course, the run on the bank.
SPEAKER_3: It got me though, I gotta say.
SPEAKER_1: The run on the bank in Mary Poppins was caused by a little child.
SPEAKER_1: Where they took his coin, he had some kind of pence or something.
SPEAKER_2: Shilling.
SPEAKER_1: Yeah, to start an account, but the boy didn't want him to do that.
SPEAKER_1: He said, give me back my money.
SPEAKER_1: And then this permeated the halls of the thing.
SPEAKER_2: Two older ladies overhear the conversation.
SPEAKER_1: They overhear.
SPEAKER_3: And then it's done.
SPEAKER_1: Oh, they're not giving him his money.
SPEAKER_1: I want my money.
SPEAKER_1: And then there was a run on the bank.
SPEAKER_3: That's so funny.
SPEAKER_3: That's great.
SPEAKER_4: Once again, something that is public can then set off cycles of thinking about what other people are thinking about what other people are thinking.
SPEAKER_1: That's the virulence you're talking about.
SPEAKER_1: Yeah.
SPEAKER_4: And a similar phenomenon might be why there was a toilet paper shortage during the COVID pandemic.
SPEAKER_4: There actually wasn't a toilet paper shortage until people thought there was this toilet paper shortage.
SPEAKER_4: So they hoarded because they thought other people were hoarding.
SPEAKER_4: When stores started posting maximum three rules per customer, that didn't so much throttle the demand as it reassured everyone that other people wouldn't be able to strip the shelves bare.
SPEAKER_4: So they didn't have to worry about stripping the shelves bare.
SPEAKER_4: I only need three rules, but I'm only going to ask for three rules because none of the other people can buy more than three rules either.
SPEAKER_4: And so that kind of snatches it.
SPEAKER_3: It's a level setter.
SPEAKER_2: So who was the originator of this?
SPEAKER_3: By the way, I still have toilet paper from the pen down by K-2N Medical.
SPEAKER_4: According to one story, it came from a big common knowledge generator in the day, namely Johnny Carson on The Tonight Show.
SPEAKER_4: So in the old era of three networks, Johnny Carson was the king of late night.
SPEAKER_4: He hosted The Tonight Show for many decades.
SPEAKER_4: When you were watching it, you had a good reason to think that the rest of the country was watching it and knew that the rest of the country was watching it.
SPEAKER_4: In the early 70s, after the oil embargo, when there was an oil shortage, he made the joke one night, you know, we have shortage of everything these days.
SPEAKER_4: There's shortage of gasoline, there's shortage of meat, there's shortage of coffee.
SPEAKER_4: But you hear the latest?
SPEAKER_4: I read it in the papers.
SPEAKER_4: There's a shortage of toilet paper.
SPEAKER_4: Now, it turns out there wasn't a shortage of toilet paper, but as soon as he made the joke, there was a shortage of toilet paper as everyone started to hoard toilet paper.
SPEAKER_2: So fulfilling.
SPEAKER_4: And according to at least one theory, ever since then, whenever there is a hurricane or a blizzard, people think that toilet paper is the thing you gotta stock up on because everyone else is gonna start hoarding it.
SPEAKER_1: There was this episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm where someone was revealed to have an entire closet full of toilet paper.
SPEAKER_4: Oh yes, during the pandemic.
SPEAKER_4: That's right.
SPEAKER_1: The entire closet.
SPEAKER_1: But how much ass wiping do you think you need to do?
SPEAKER_1: How big is your ass?
SPEAKER_3: By the way, in a hurricane, when your home floods, that toilet paper is not gonna be worth anything.
SPEAKER_3: Wet toilet paper really isn't so much fun, I'm saying.
SPEAKER_4: Well, in the other direction, you can also get speculative bubbles.
SPEAKER_4: You buy crypto because you think other people are buying crypto, or at least will want to buy crypto tomorrow, so they'll pay more for it tomorrow than you paid today.
SPEAKER_4: They're buying it tomorrow, because I think they'll sell it to someone who wants to buy it the day after tomorrow.
SPEAKER_4: The hot potato.
SPEAKER_4: Yes, the greater fool.
SPEAKER_3: The greater fool.
SPEAKER_4: That goes back to John Maynard Keynes, who in the 1920s compared speculative investing.
SPEAKER_4: So this is investing not because of the return that you expect on the asset, that is the profits that the manufacturer will make selling widgets, or the farmer selling food, but you think you can unload the security at a profit on someone else.
SPEAKER_4: He said it's like a beauty contest where instead of picking the prettiest face, the object is to pick the face that the most other people pick, where they're picking the face with the same goal, that is trying to figure out what everyone else is picking.
SPEAKER_4: So, it's called a Keynesian beauty contest.
SPEAKER_2: Don't we have that in primaries, elections?
SPEAKER_4: And in elections are Keynesian beauty contests.
SPEAKER_4: That is, in a primary election, there may be a field of a dozen candidates, and no one wants to waste their vote in just deciding who's going to come in in seventh place as opposed to eighth place.
SPEAKER_1: Which is what rank choice voting is trying to resolve.
SPEAKER_4: That's exactly what it's trying to resolve.
SPEAKER_4: And so, people are hyper aware for any signs that someone has momentum, that they're in the lead, because they want to vote to determine who comes in first, not who comes in sixth.
SPEAKER_3: Right, I don't want to waste the vote.
SPEAKER_4: That's what they say.
SPEAKER_4: And so, during the coverage, any various trivial gaffs and lapses or boosts can sometimes shoot a candidate to the top or sink their candidacy.
SPEAKER_4: Like when a few years ago, when Howard Dean was running for president.
SPEAKER_4: Hi-ya!
SPEAKER_4: And everyone knew you can't vote for Dean now because his victory scream means that everyone knew that he had a silly victory scream and that ended his candidacy.
SPEAKER_3: Can you imagine?
SPEAKER_3: Seriously?
SPEAKER_3: No, I'm just...
SPEAKER_3: Don't make fun of us.
SPEAKER_4: No, no, no, no, no, no.
SPEAKER_1: You have some weird politics yourself.
SPEAKER_3: By the way, a highly qualified candidate who was not able to continue his candidacy because he was like, and then we're going to go to New Hampshire, and then we're going to go to Vermont, and then we're going to go to, hi-ya!
SPEAKER_3: And he did that, and everybody was like, oh, dude, you can't be president, not acting like that.
SPEAKER_3: And then years later, we're just like, you can grab them by the whatever.
SPEAKER_4: You can just grab them anywhere you want.
SPEAKER_3: And they sometimes let you do it because you're famous.
SPEAKER_3: And we're like, yeah, that's the guy.
SPEAKER_3: That's the guy right there.
SPEAKER_3: We got to let that guy.
SPEAKER_2: All right, moving on.
SPEAKER_4: The Trump Phenomenon is interesting because what he did is done repeatedly is that he has flouted norms that everyone thought were inviolable.
SPEAKER_4: They were inviolable only because people thought they were inviolable and they existed as common expectation, common knowledge.
SPEAKER_4: And as soon as he flouted them and did not pay the price, they no longer existed as norms, which is why they're, I think, being copied by people like Elon Musk, also a troll, a liar, a braggart, that things that would be unthinkable for a president, for a CEO, as soon as they're thinkable, they're thinkable.
SPEAKER_2: So is this the fracturing of common knowledge that is partly behind the polarity of society right now, where people are just refusing and disinterested mainly to find a common ground?
SPEAKER_4: Yeah, so common knowledge always is defined relative to a network of sharing of information.
SPEAKER_4: It could be two people, in some of the examples we've discussed, it could be the entire country.
SPEAKER_4: And there has been a segregation into two separate pools of common knowledge.
SPEAKER_4: Everyone blames social media, and that probably has something to do with it.
SPEAKER_4: But I think it's also cable news, Fox News, prior to social media had that effect.
SPEAKER_4: You weren't watching Walter Cronkite at the same time as everyone else was watching Walter Cronkite or Johnny Carson.
SPEAKER_4: And residential segregation.
SPEAKER_4: When you had educated people flocking to cities, leaving behind the less educated, when you had a decline in organizations that brought people together across the socioeconomic divides, like the army in the era of the draft, like churches, like service organizations, like the Lions Club, like bowling clubs, you stop rubbing shoulders with people from different social classes.
SPEAKER_4: Each one then hung out with people like them, and then the common knowledge that they shared started to grow disjoint.
SPEAKER_1: So, it feeds divisiveness, because it's the same issue, as you said, multi-culturally, right?
SPEAKER_1: Except now it's within the same culture, but now people are dividing with the same motive.
SPEAKER_4: Different cultures within the same country.
SPEAKER_1: Within the same country.
SPEAKER_3: That makes me feel like it's exacerbated by what I'll call the vituperative disposition of leadership right now.
SPEAKER_1: I don't know what that word means.
SPEAKER_1: I'm sorry.
SPEAKER_1: What does that word mean?
SPEAKER_1: Vituperative?
SPEAKER_3: Vituperative.
SPEAKER_3: It means like...
SPEAKER_1: It's very SAT.
SPEAKER_3: Is it?
SPEAKER_3: It means like mean and nasty, like a viper.
SPEAKER_3: So, when we're siloed into these different camps like this, it becomes very easy, then, to point fingers and say, that's your enemy, that's your enemy, that's your enemy.
SPEAKER_3: And then, it's okay to be mean and nasty towards those people.
SPEAKER_3: And it seems like that's exactly where we are.
SPEAKER_1: Nazi Germany took that all the way through.
SPEAKER_3: I wasn't even thinking along those lines, but absolutely, yes, that's how it went down.
SPEAKER_4: But, yeah, norms of civility, things you just don't say.
SPEAKER_4: You might disagree with someone, you might even not think highly of them, but you don't insult them to their face.
SPEAKER_4: I mean, you do in the playground, but there was a norm in politics, in corporations, in the media, that you pretend that you like them even if you don't.
SPEAKER_4: And those are some of the norms that are shattered.
SPEAKER_4: You don't lie blatantly.
SPEAKER_4: Now, everyone lies somewhat.
SPEAKER_4: I'll always probably tell two lies a day.
SPEAKER_4: But you don't blatantly lie, you don't show a contempt for the truth, you at least try to pretend that you're honest.
SPEAKER_1: Can I give you an example?
SPEAKER_1: So I befriended a, I have a sort of Republican confidant who was in Congress for like 25 years.
SPEAKER_3: You can tell them that it's me, Neil.
SPEAKER_1: He was in through Reagan and beyond.
SPEAKER_1: And then I was talking to Al Gore and I was saying, I was friends with this guy, but I had to work it because we come from different places.
SPEAKER_1: And you know what he said?
SPEAKER_1: He didn't say anything bad, he just said, yeah, he's an acquired taste.
SPEAKER_1: And I thought, that was pretty politic.
SPEAKER_3: That is a very politic.
SPEAKER_1: Right, he didn't insult, he just said, you know, you gotta work it, and then as any acquired taste would be.
SPEAKER_1: So that's an example.
SPEAKER_1: You don't hear that today.
SPEAKER_4: Yeah, or when Winston Churchill was asked, maybe the reason you lost the election to Clement Attlee is that people thought that Attlee was more modest.
SPEAKER_4: He said, well, Mr.
SPEAKER_4: Attlee has much to be modest about.
SPEAKER_2: He did have a good turn of phrase, Joe.
SPEAKER_2: Let me ask you before we have to wrap this up.
SPEAKER_1: Yeah, we gotta start wrapping.
SPEAKER_2: What plays out if society remains unchecked where the common knowledge is distorted or the common knowledge is dictated by the loudest voice, no matter what that voice is saying?
SPEAKER_1: Yeah, by nefarious forces influencing.
SPEAKER_4: Yeah, well, we're seeing some of it.
SPEAKER_4: We're seeing the polarization, particularly the negative polarization, that is not just disagreeing by thinking that the other side is stupid or evil.
SPEAKER_4: I don't have an algorithm for reversing that, but the kind of norms that we should spread would be ones of civil disagreement, epistemic humility, charity, things that go against human nature, where we tend to think of argument as a competition, as a war.
SPEAKER_4: I attacked his arguments, he defended them, but then I demolished them.
SPEAKER_4: We use the metaphors of war in talking about argument.
SPEAKER_4: And in one of the chapters, I talk about a different model for argument.
SPEAKER_4: Coming out of a mathematical theorem, claiming that we, rational agents, should not agree to disagree.
SPEAKER_1: That's how I feel, by the way.
SPEAKER_4: Well, there's actually some, it's a proof by the Israeli mathematician Robert Alleman that depends on common knowledge.
SPEAKER_4: We don't have time to go through it now.
SPEAKER_4: But it does set a kind of an alternative, a paradigm for argument.
SPEAKER_4: That instead of two people beating each other up and the one left standing wins, that's not how you discover the truth.
SPEAKER_4: Or even bargaining and negotiating and you come to some compromise.
SPEAKER_4: You think about why should the truth just happen to lie halfway in between two opinionated guys?
SPEAKER_4: But rather it's kind of a random walk where when two people exchange information, they might go all over the map until they converge on a common conclusion.
SPEAKER_1: That's precisely how I feel.
SPEAKER_1: I mean, otherwise you just...
SPEAKER_3: Well, you would as a scientist.
SPEAKER_3: That is kind of like your whole field.
SPEAKER_1: If we disagree, it's because there's insufficient data to create the agreement to not let's go have a beer and invent the experiment that will resolve this.
SPEAKER_3: There you have it.
SPEAKER_4: That would be the kind of norm that goes against human nature.
SPEAKER_4: I think the progress of science shows it's the best way to do things.
SPEAKER_4: And even, of course, scientists are not immune to pissing contests, dominance contests, and at least we acknowledge it's a bad thing.
SPEAKER_4: For that norm to spread in journalism, in politics, in the court system would be a good thing.
SPEAKER_1: It would be transformative.
SPEAKER_4: Yes.
SPEAKER_4: More truth, less vituperation.
SPEAKER_3: Once again, science saves the day.
SPEAKER_3: Science!
SPEAKER_1: And he said vituperation.
SPEAKER_1: He doubled down on it.
SPEAKER_1: There it is.
SPEAKER_1: I see what he did there.
SPEAKER_1: Yeah, I think we gotta call it quits there.
SPEAKER_1: Oh my god.
SPEAKER_3: That was a great conversation, man.
SPEAKER_1: Let me see if I can take us out with a quick cosmic perspective, with your permission.
SPEAKER_2: If you're feeling it, do it, man.
SPEAKER_1: Yeah.
SPEAKER_1: I spent my life studying the universe, which is a huge complex place.
SPEAKER_1: All the laws of physics I learned in physics class are applied in some place, in some way, at some time, in the unfolding universe.
SPEAKER_1: Also the laws of chemistry and our search for life in the universe.
SPEAKER_1: There's the biology that we bring with us.
SPEAKER_1: All of this.
SPEAKER_1: And every time I reflect on that, I think to myself, this is not the hardest thing we can think about out there.
SPEAKER_1: You know what the hardest thing is?
SPEAKER_1: The human mind.
SPEAKER_1: What's going on inside there?
SPEAKER_1: And we've got psychologists, neuroscientists, it's a whole field trying to figure ourselves out.
SPEAKER_1: And I'm glad I do something as easy as astrophysics relative to what they've got to worry about.
SPEAKER_1: And I just hope that the study of the human mind by the human mind is not the most complex thing we ever have to tackle in this universe.
SPEAKER_1: But if it is, get ready for that ride because the human mind is not logical, it's not rational, only occasionally.
SPEAKER_1: It was not only the source of everything we value and call civilization, it may actually be the end of it as well, if we're not careful.
SPEAKER_1: That's a cosmic perspective.
SPEAKER_1: Steven, thanks for joining us.
SPEAKER_4: Thank you so much.
SPEAKER_4: It's been a great pleasure.
SPEAKER_4: It was great.
SPEAKER_1: Steven Pinker's latest book.
SPEAKER_1: Give me the title again.
SPEAKER_4: When Everyone Knows That Everyone Knows...
SPEAKER_1: You got it.
SPEAKER_3: There you go.
SPEAKER_1: Chuck.
SPEAKER_3: Always a pleasure.
SPEAKER_1: All right, Gary.
SPEAKER_2: Pleasure, my friend.
SPEAKER_1: This has been StarTalk Special Edition.
SPEAKER_1: Neil deGrasse Tyson, you're a personal astrophysicist.
SPEAKER_1: As always, keep looking up.